Living in motion means belonging in motion. Not a family defined by blood, but the one encountered along the way, collected.
Like a fast drive across uncertain streets, headlights cutting through the fog of chance. Sometimes you get lost on the highway, an unexpected passenger sits beside you, entering your life without asking.
They take a piece of you, and you take a piece of them. For a brief moment, you live inside each other. That fleeting exchange creates a form of ubiquity.
You exist in places you’ve never been, carried by those who have known you.
Somehow that’s enough to exist in each other’s lives even when you’re far away.
Vanya came into my life this way.
Seventeen, fleeing from Ukraine in 2022, a war he didn’t choose. He crossed my doorway like a gust of cold air, and then didn’t leave.
One year.
One year of learning how to care for someone who wasn’t my blood, but felt like it. A younger brother, maybe a son, almost. Someone to protect, to care for, to love.
Someone I carried, and who carried me in return even when neither of us knew it.
I’ve learned that vulnerability is the real passport to belonging. When you keep the door open, people can sit with you, ride with you, breathe the same air for a while.
They come and go.
They pause.
They sit.
And sometimes, they sit long enough to become family.